Talking about relationship..

I have this feeling to blog about relationship again..
topic for the day..

"A person MUST not get involved in a relationship unless she/he forgets about the ex"

I got hooked with this love story recently =)

She is a nice person and attached to a nice decent guy for several months..
This girl is actually a fickle minded person..
She cant make up her mind whether she likes this guy after several months..
but she said she enjoys his company whenever he is around..

She had only one serious relationship in the past.. and i believed the feeling for the ex bf is still very strong.. although she strongly deny in whatever ways.. but i believe my feeling is right for this.. the reasons for the break up is due to the guy studying in oversea..

Recently the ex bf came back and they both meet up..
at first meeting the feelings wasn't there, according to her.. so i was such relieved as i know the return of the ex will confirm cause some trouble for the current relationship..

i was to naive to believe so, the second meeting, the way she described of not stopping him from flirting her.. SUDAH CONFIRM LA GONE CASE LA TU

the current bf knew that she is gonna meet the exbf and have full trust on her for not cheating at back of him.. so some how made me think that GIRLS cant be trusted fully..

the exbf brought her to gathering and stuffs and treated her as if the own gf, i believe there are hugs hugs, playing with hairs, and whispering going on during the gathering and stuffs..
knowing the group of friends the exbf have, haha.. well i know what kinda person he is like..
spending, gambling, drinking, clubbing, smoking some how related to him... i hope i am wrong..

this exbf is leaving this country soon and going back oversea again soon.. well he might be back after completing his course and work by next year.. and the current bf is emotionally break down some how (knowing a little bit of what she did)

and this girl is somehow lose feelings for the current one.. so its kinda fuck up for the current bf.. i donno how bad it is.. but the mutual trust is only provided by that guy while the girl think there is nothing wrong done by her.. she still thinks she is innocent..
I wonder if this continues, how long more can this relationship hang on?
and what if the guy really comes back next year and the story repeats again??


From justice point of view, this is total rubbish did by this girl of not making up her mind..

Thinking from her point of view, i think she done nothing wrong because this is her own relationship after all, and as long a person is happy with the relationship, that is more important then anything else..

i was quite angry to know about this at first, but being a rational person, i think from different point and different angle to look at it..

so i can conclude that this current bf can only be described as unlucky??

Welcome to comment about this..

Parent's 21st Anniversary

the two Lim juniors

took this pix three years ago..

Last year cny !!

haha stalking them from distance..

this picture made me jealous~ hahaha.. wth ~??

First of all i would like to thank both of them for giving me a wonderful life=)
i have nothing much to grumble about my life !!
Although i have been bad and naughty sometimes, but they are always there to support me in whatever ways.. sometimes in dumb dumb ways..
mummy's potong steam encouragement especially which i like the most.. ahaha...
daddy's ever cool and caring personality...
there are more to come ~! no gifts for both of u.. cause i am in economy crisis !! hahaa..

Enlin !!

Enlin's welcome gift =)

famous chendol in malacca !~ with gula malacca

En lin came to malacca today !! just to meet ME !!! hahaa.. hello enlin i tour u around malacca okay!?? SAY THANK U!!
First of all, he said he wants to go somewhere special, i seriously find malacca is boring.. museum perhaps??
he said he wanted to stalk hot malacca girls, i cracked my head thinking where to bring this perverted mouse.. shopping surely cacat compared to KL ones.. then decided to bring him to Jonker for chicken rice ball, and later brought him to shop in Dataran Pahlawan.. biggest mall in Southern peninsular malaysia ok??.. and he managed to buy a pair of adidas shorts.. seriously can hail him as second cherly !~!

Oh ya regarding that saman!! i told enlin that if he got booked by police for not buying car park coupon, i will pay for him.. true enough he kena !!~ siall ~~

10.01.10

San and mua

this pic looks kinda yeng

Sing song session in Station 1

Full strength kill it !! lol!!

I m ready !!

Enlin, me and imaginary shereena

Ks and me.. missing uwei =(

The chicks and me

buddy's girlfriend

My birthday eve ~ spent my time with all the friends out there.. yang semua friendly and nice !!
k let me list down those people that made it for the day,
Khaishaun, Eli, Enlin, Jennhsen, Janice, Cherly, YaoYun, Steph, Loong, Jie Hao, Eejun, Joann,
Weijun, did i miss out anyone?? hahah
too bad ferns down sick!~

had dinner in sushi senjyu i think.. not so sure of the spelling..
total up 500 plus.. but jennhsen is kind enough to offer his 150bucks voucher !!! woohoo!!
could have split the bill into 2 then can get more discount.. haiyz!!

received a self made teddy bear from 7 friends who still think i am a baby, anyway thanks to 7 of u all.. and a red tomato colour adidas teeshirt from shereena all the way from australia =) u the best shereena =)

New year Eve

Another year has gone..
Last year was with all my close friends..
but this year, i m with all my normal friends nia..
although not close with them, but i do enjoy spending the new year with them =)

venue in curve.. got to know a few new friends.. mostly san's friends..
worse part of the night is, almost everyone is attached among those friends, feel kinda uneasy,
Sansan's group of friends calling me a light bulb for sticking with yewwei and sansan during new year eve.. allah sian sia~ hahaha...

enlin was there in curve with jiawei, but ditched me for MOS.. what a friend.. hmm
hopely 12 months later, i get a gf to see the fireworks with me=)

Spore Trip

Bro was in singapore for 2weeks holiday...
went down to pick him up !! omg.. my bro is seriously holiday mood after Upsr till now..
went to meet my cousin which i last met 3 or 4 years ago.. woohO~...
as u can see the one with grey top is the cousin i talking about..

its great catching up with people u don't meet after long..
i brought 100 dollars and some ringgits and come back with the same amount of money..
i think i lost my shopping skills.. i just cant see things which i like anymore..
why why??
i donno how to spend.. is that good or bad??
i donno man~ siannnessss

$$ Power of Money $$

$$ Power of Money $$

Inspirational! SHARE IT WITH CHILDREN
Power of Money, By Adam Khoo
( Singapore 's youngest millionaire at 26 yrs.)

Some of you may already know that I travel around the region pretty frequently, having to visit and conduct seminars at my offices in Malaysia , Indonesia , Thailand and Suzhou ( China ). I am in the airport almost every other week so I get to bump into many people who have attended my seminars or have read my books.

Recently, someone came up to me on a plane to KL and looked rather shocked. He asked, 'How come a millionaire like you is traveling economy?' My reply was, 'That's why I am a millionaire. ' He still looked pretty confused.
This again confirms that greatest lie ever told about wealth(which I wrote about in my latest book 'Secrets of Self-Made Millionaires' ). Many people have been brainwashed to think that millionaires have to wear Gucci, Hugo Boss, Rolex, and sit on first class in air travel. This is why so many people never become rich because the moment that they earn more money, they think that it is only natural that they spend more, putting them back to square one.
The truth is that most self-made millionaires are frugal and only spend on what is necessary and of value. That is why they are able to accumulate and multiply their wealth so much faster.
Over the last 7 years, I have saved about 80% of my income while today I save only about 60% (because I have my wife, mother in law, 2 maids, 2 kids, etc. to support). Still, it is way above most people who save 10% of their income (if they are lucky).
I refuse to buy a first class ticket or to buy a $300 shirt because I think that it is a complete waste of money. However, I happily pay $1,300 to send my 2-year old daughter to Julia Gabriel Speech and Drama without thinking twice.
When I joined the YEO (Young Entrepreneur' s Orgn)a few years back (YEO) is an exclusive club open to those who are under 40 and make over $1m a year in their own business) I discovered that those who were self-made thought like me. Many of them with net worth well over $5m,travelled economy class and some even drove Toyota 's and Nissans,not Audis, Mercs, BMWs.
I noticed that it was only those who never had to work hard to build their own wealth (there were also a few ministers' and tycoons' sons in the club) who spent like there was no tomorrow. Somehow, when you did not have to build everything from scratch, you do not really value money. This is precisely the reason why a family's wealth (no matter how much) rarely lasts past the third generation
Thank God my rich dad foresaw this terrible possibility and refused to give me a cent to start my business.
Then some people ask me, 'What is the point in making so much money if you don't enjoy it?' The thing is that I don't really find happiness in buying branded clothes, jewellery or sitting first class. Even if buying something makes me happy it is only for a while, it does not last.
Material happiness never lasts, it just give you a quick fix. After a while you feel lousy again and have to buy the next thing which you think will make you happy. I always think that if you need material things to make you happy, then you live a pretty sad and unfulfilled life..
Instead, what makes me happy is when I see my children laughing and playing and learning so fast. What makes me happy is when I see my companies and trainers reaching more and more people every year in so many more countries.
What makes me really happy is when I read all the emails about how my books and seminars have touched and inspired someone's life.
What makes me really happy is reading all your wonderful posts about how this blog is inspiring you. This happiness makes me feel really good for a long time, much much more than what a Rolex would do for me.

I think the point I want to put across is that happiness must come from doing your life's work (be it teaching, building homes, designing,trading, winning tournaments etc.) and the money that comes is only a by-product. If you hate what you are doing and rely on the money you earn to make you happy by buying stuff, then I think that you are living a life of meaninglessness.

I came across this very interesting article sent my cousin through email, would like to share with u all..
Wealth is not measured by how many Bentley, Gucci, Rolex.. wealth is more than what u think
This article is very inspiring.. hope u guys enjoy it.. appreciate what u have now rather then having desires for more material stuffs.. =)

Another cousin's wedding...

Another cousin's wedding ! almost every cousin got married.. left a few.. who knows the next one getting married among cousins will be me?? whaha better not..

damm i never get the newly wed couple pic from cousin...
i never take with my parents pulak.. how come i so blur that day.. nothing much to post about..
wish the newly wed couple happy happy happy..
hopely by next year got red eggs from them ...

OH YA!! one extra ANG PAU next Chinese new year !! good good !!

Car got clamped ~

came back abit late this morning.. i parked my car at the non parking site..
turn off the ignition, get my stuffs, load stuffs in the room, straight head to office for roll call..
then i take my sweet time breakfast in cafeteria and messaging jennhsen at the same time..haha
then my phone received incoming call from friend..
HEY YOUR CAR GOT CLAMPED...
haha.. deng..

i went to see the admin ppl, they dont want money.. they wanna clamp it for a week =.=!!
after failing discussing with the Malay (total turn off), i go talk to the Chinese admin person...
then he told me to see him tomro morning..
yiiish...

TO all my friends and futsalmates taking SPM tomorrow morning.. wishing u all the best ~ striking A for all subjects!

Colours in my life =)

water colour =)

crayons!

colour pencils!

i was walking around in a stationary shop the other day.. and this 3 things came into my mind..
i remember when i was a kid.. my art teachers will always shake their heads when they see my masterpiece.. !! err maybe my arts are just hahaha terrible horrible and vegetable..

colour pencil was used in pre school, then crayon was used in primary school, finally water colour for high school.. aww i miss time holding colour pencils, crayons and brushes..
i guess the next time i will help my brother do his art work! if not then my children?
qihong junior?? hahaha...

now i know why older people love to say appreciate and enjoy ur life now...
cause now i am at the stage of missing things that i have been thru last time..

friends are now in overseas.. i dont get to see them as often as i could anymore..
but luckily technology bring the world closer.. =)

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